He's just so into you

He's just so into you

Statistics say men lie five times more often than women. (Now ask yourself, is that true, or did I just make it up?) Despite human progress and enlightened times, we're still slaves to our genes.
Males are hardwired to impress women. Especially if it a woman he adores and really really likes. I have my experiences on this counter too. I have been a girl to see, observe and learn with whatever signs have been given. I take first impressions seriously like men and hence if he likes me, he'll show it instantly and not make me wonder for a whole year as to what is going on in his head. Really.
If a guy likes a woman, he goes out of his way to let her know how much she means to her. It is just the most important thing for him. He may not use words, but actions he has ample. Which is what I'll elaborate on next.
Thanks to Errant I am now doing a positive post on men. Surely you owe me one because I prefer bashing you more than singing to your tunes :P
Do I sound arrogant? Nopes that I don't, I am confident that I know what a man means when he acts in a certain way or says certain somethings.

Presenting to you a tag which is a flip side of "He's Just Not That Into You"... He is Just SO INTO YOU!

1. When a man is into you, he will actively take interest in you and your life and your routine and everything else about you. I find it a little pissing off because I am not always in a mood to answer but then that is their wayto get up close. To find out everything and anything and hear what we have to say if they like us. Men who don't like us will simply change subjects and make you wonder what crap did you utter that ticked the channel of the conversation.

2. When a man is into you, he will seldom make you wonder. He is never going to be a bitch, at least for the beginning many years. I don't count quarrels in this because that happens between people. He's not just nodding when you speak, he is actively giving you his input. He will not check his watch to make you watch that you are such a drag.
There's eye contact. He's actively listening. He's asking questions, relating things you say to his own experiences. Interested men even remember what you said and when you said it.

3. When a man is into you, he's open about himself. As much as he wants to know about you, he tells you about himself. He'll share personal details about himself. If he isn't giving information about his contact, where he works, where he lives, he is just having a good time with you.

4. If he's decided he wants you as his female, he won't want to lose you and hence he will behave in a way that is arousing to you. He will ask you what interests you and like you will be willing to adopt that interest just to please your man, he is likely to do the same. If there's any chance that you might be snapped up by another male, he'll stake his claim. He'll be tactile with you, slipping an arm around you, possibly posturing and standing up when another guy walks onto the scene. He will find all situations perfect to close up on you. Notice his square shoulders narrowing while you two sit and chat? Well that is a sign, he is comfortable around you.

5. When a man is into you, he calls you often and he calls you back. Despite the stereotype, he will call you back. If you're getting calls for no reason, that's a good thing. If he’s calling, texting, and making plans with you, he is into you. Somethings are old school and no matter how insane it sounds to independent women, this is just the way. He will have to take the first step.

6. When a man is into you, he'll check you out and notice everything about you, while you have no idea at all. Yes if he is at all into you, when you two depart from a date, he will text you and tell you something about your hair or lips or earrings that will sweep you off balance. You cannot catch this spy drooling all over you with his eyes. He'll talk to your friends to know more about you and hang around you while you are with them just to bond well with you.

 

7. When a man is into you, he wants to know more about you -- your past, your present, your likes and dislikes, water hazards, etc. He's doing his homework because he wants to impress you. He's gathering this intelligence so he knows how best to woo you.

8. When a man is into you, he's always planning ahead. If he digs you, he won't want you getting away from him. To make sure you aren't prey to some other guy, he'll make plans for you to meet his family. Every day he will squeeze you in just so you don't flee from him. Yes he knows his woman well. Until he can't have his ring on her finger, there is no way he will take anything easy.

9. When a man is into you,he will take time out from the busiest if his schedules. There is no such thing as "I am busy today, can we do this tomorrow?" Yes this interested man will bring you flowers without a reason, shower you with gifts and always be willing to be at your side even if it means he'll be screamed at by his boss later. Some say if he lies for you, he will lie to you. I don't buy that. I think if he lies for the woman he loves, he will always be more honest to her. He won't keep anything from her. Even the fact that he will get hell for being late to work because he took the shorter route to meet her first on his way to work. Yes he relies on the woman he likes.

10. When a man is into you, he'll cancel his buddies plan to be with you. It is a love act. He will not hide from them, but actually take you around some public place just to show to the world what a woman he is with. If he doesn't like you there are a zillion reasons he can feed you, but if he is into you, he will just not be able to find enough reasons, moments and times to be with you, talk to you, call you, text you, watch movies with you, have conversations about nothing with you.

Remember girls, if he likes you, he will go out of his way to show that he is available for you all the time. No matter how much things change later when you end up marrying someone like that but that is the works, that doesn't mean he loves you less, just that now he knows that he has you and can have you more when he gets home from his daily duties. Don't bug him too much. When a man likes you, no matter how busy he is, if you ask for his help or just want to be with him, he would find possible ways to be with you.

Now ask yourself...
Does he compliment you often?
Does he call you soon after you two have met?
Does he ask you when you will meet up next?
Does he keeps trying to get you to stay longer with him?
Does his eyes always make contact with you?
Does his shoulders curve in when he is talking to you?
Has he tried to close in the distance?
Does he talk in whispers with you?
Does he flirt back when you flirt with him?
If you catch him looking at you does he start looking at the ground or the ceiling?
Does he always pay the bill at the restaurant?
Does he have a problem while talking to his friends in your presence?
Is he comfortable on the phone in your presence?
Do you get late night calls from him, just because nothing, he just felt like calling and talking to you?
Yes some of the above signs could lead to him playing you, but most of the time it is his interest in you that gets him to act crazy around you.
P.S. Just because you know that he is into you, just don't give in to easy and be a mushy baboon. Play hard to get because something about their genes, wants them to play catch. The harder the catch the better chances of your survival.Keep a man guessing ;)