What Won't Make Him Love You

 

Put These on Your DO-NOT-Do List!
As women we're often brought up to believe we have to be perfect to find the man of our dreams. That's rubbish. I know because I was one of the women who strived for perfection for years. It didn't get me the man of my dreams. It did make me miserable though. I wasn't being myself.

Here's a list of things you shouldn't be doing in an effort to make a man fall in love with you:
Cater to his every need. There's a great chance that if you do this - cater to every whim of a man, he's going to stick around. But it's not because you are the woman for him, it's because you'll do anything he wants. NEVER cook a man dinner every night. NEVER do his laundry if you are dating. NEVER clean his apartment for him and NEVER run over to his place simply because he's feeling frisky.

Change your appearance for him. If you wear pink lipstick and the man you are dating says he prefers red, don't convert. If you do you are showing him that you are easily manipulated. Men like a woman with her own mind. Don't change who you are just because there's something about you he doesn't automatically like.

Act like his mother. Don't treat any man you are dating like a child. This means no calling him all the time. Don't ask him where he's been if you haven't heard from him in a while and never tell him to button up his coat if it's cold outside. He already has a mother, he doesn't want you to be one too.

Assume he knows what you want. Men can't read minds. Their minds also don't operate the same way yours does. If you expect a man to know what you want from him, you'll always be disappointed.
If you want to get a man to sit up and take notice of only you, you need to understand

how to become irresistible to him.